The NEW Dating of the Future

Does anyone else see the absurdity of letting a 10th grader go on a date with a guy who picks her up with a van?

Does anyone else see the absurdity of teenagers having sex and then having a child to raise when they are still children themselves?

Does anyone else see the absurdity of sex between people who should be concentrating on learning skills, working, preparing a home, getting married, etc.?

First comes love.

Then comes marriage.

Then and only THEN comes the sex that puts the baby in the baby carriage.

It’s not… sex, then dating, then maybe love, a slight possibility of marriage, baby… either killed or birthed, adopted or raised in poverty.

It’s like someone building a mansion on a rock where there is no electricity or plumbing, just waves to batter it.

How to get from the first attraction to the honeymoon bed without taking their pants off, and I don’t mean crotchless panties, okay? I mean, keeping busy with other things and just reserving the hot sex for when the couple can provide the home, finances, upbringing, love, attention. security a human needs to develop.

We have the ability to choose everything we choose! Animals kinda don’t. They just smell a dog in heat and chase it. Then the mom has the pups and they either make it or they don’t. They either have a human family or not.

Some dogs get better care than human children. What’s wrong with that? The first family was not prepared.

Let’s teach responsible preparation.

Published by Notes To A Puzzled World

Are we just copies and imitators of everything we observe, learn about, etc.? Wanting to be an "original" has been my desire all my life. I was one of 10 children. I had to be different to be noticed, right? As life went on, I found out life intrinsically has boundaries a human, if they want the best results for human existence, is to stay within the created boundaries, to be humble enough to accept they are created and not the creator of all there is. My profile? I like to write, photograph, cook, eat, enjoy nature, experience, laugh, love, look, learn, and sometimes even lose because when you lose, you learn something, such as, how to win next time. I love the shoreline, the mountain trail, the biking trail, the road and the not-so-well beaten path. I hope you read my stuff because a lot of it I learned the hard way, due to stubbornness, pride, rebellion, plain youth or ignorance or misguidedness. I'd like to save you the trouble by sharing what I've learned. Funny thing is, as we go through life, sometimes we have to go through something in order to see that what we thought was okay to do isn't, and ya have to wonder what we don't know yet!

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